by Dr. Larry A. Brown
It is very important for us to learn and practice the techniques for winning because we all enjoy the good feelings that accompany the situation of winning as opposed to the awfully bad feelings and outcomes associated with lg. “ Everybody loves a winner, but when you lose, you lose alone”. One technique is “ As often and frequently as I am knocked down, I will get up until I win “. Hopefully, though, we can employ and use certain strategies and techniques that will result in our winning without having to “ get knocked down “ so often.
To begin with, we must respect the other side, be it an individual, or a situation, and realize that they want to win also. We must learn to listen well, in order to find out the weaknesses, desires, and things necessary to overcome in order to win.
We have to be willing to negotiate or give a little in order to gain the victory. We have to begin the situation with true love for the adversary so that after we win, we can perhaps woo them on our side because in reality, the more we are together, the better off we will be in the future.
We must approach the situation with strong will and determination. We must have the desire to win. If necessary, we must constantly remind ourselves of the benefits that go along with winning, both for ourselves, and others.
We must make sure that the win is not just for us alone, but that it is necessary in order for others to benefit. That is why our hearts must be pure and our thoughts truly aimed for a right and just end. We must make sure that we have enough resources in order to win. We must be willing to stay the course, until we win. So often, we get accused of starting something and leaving or giving up before the job is completed. We have to exercise the will to remain on the battlefield as long as it becomes necessary, in order to reach a desirable conclusion.
It is entirely possible for each of us to enjoy winning in the future and as a matter of Fact, it is urgent that we win more than we lose, in order to maintain our positive mental well- being.
Let us all decide to become winners this year and not accept facts that we are to be in certain categories and that we are born losers .
You too, can win!!
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May this year be one that we can look back on and declare that we won more than we lost !!
