As we enter a new year I have been reflecting on no matter what happened over this past year how truly blessed we have been.
We may complain about politics, inflation, weather, bad drivers, or our aches and pains but I challenge anyone to find a country as great as ours. We may have our differences, but we are all in this together. I see this when I am out talking to my neighbors whom are walkers. One lady walks on most days and although I can’t remember her name, we always exchange friendly greetings and joke about the golf club she is carrying (I think it is a 9 iron).
There is so much ado about migrants and the border. Yes, there are problems, but these have been around for longer than I can remember. Same problems just different voices. What most are not saying is they are descendants of migrants. Unless you are a native American, you are a transplant. In the 1800’s migrants from Europe and the Far East came to America to find a better life escaping the persecution or displacement from war torn countries. These are the people we became and yes we still celebrate our ethnic cultures. I used to love going to October-fests celebrating German heritage (I’m not German), or St. Paddys day (I’m not Irish). I just enjoy the different cultures that make up our great county. I embrace different cultures and cuisines. I’ve mentioned before that I love to cook.
I have been blessed to have traveled to many points in the world both during my time in the service and when I worked. The people I met have always been friendly and helpful. You can always find the bad in life – just turn on the news. But you can also always find the good – just go out in your neighborhood. Good is all around us if we take the time to make it good. A smile and a wave, holding a door, letting others go first, I think it’s called random acts of kindness. Let’s all practice some this year.
As a boomer and former software engineer, I know I have lost touch with all the emerging technology and trends. But, I really don’t care because I realize I am beginning to hit my stride in life. I am still active, live on my own, cook, play music, cut my own grass, play golf, fish, and hang with my family and friends. How blessed is that?
When you reflect on your life, I hope you realize even in the hardest times, we are blessed and although it may look bleak at times, we can always be proud to live in a nation that has the freedom we all cherish. My big brother passed away in 2024 but I was blessed to have him as my big brother for 73 years. I miss being able to talk with him. But I’m blessed to still have my baby sister.
As mom used to say: “No matter what happens, the world keeps turning and the sun is going to come up in the morning.” Thanks mom!
Papa Deau
